Ever heard of the story about the bet the sun made with the north wind? The north wind goes up to the sun and says, I bet I can make that man take off his jacket. The sun says, I'll take that bet. So the north wind blows and blows as hard as he can. The harder he blows, the harder the man holds onto to his jacket. When he is done blowing the sun comes out and warms up the air. Man takes off his jacket. The moral of the story is usually anything done by force is met with resistance. Create the environment for change to happen....and change will happen.