The fact of the matter is, most people do not belong in this business. But they try it anyway because they are either so freaking greedy that they think they are going to make millions or they are so freaking lazy and love the idea of skipping work, leaving when they want and making their own hours. The bottom line is, holding their hand and telling them what a great guy they are and buying them pizza and telling them everything will be OK is bullshit. Trading should be like the military. You should get the shit kicked out of you. You can't treat traders like children. You need to treat these people like adults. And accept the fact that you are not suppose to succeed. You are there to make a living! And yes, it's a very tough job. The only way to succeed is toughen yourself up. It's simply the fact that most people simply are not cut out for this job.